Do you feel like you’re not good enough? You’re not alone.
Hi, I’m Helen, and I created The Shame-Free Community for anyone who feels not good enough, inadequate, insecure or worthless. I know what it feels like, having lived with shame and trauma for most of my life.
Whatever your story, you belong here.


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The Shame-Free Community
The Shame-Free Community offers you a clear path towards self-acceptance and out of shame.
At its heart, shame causes deep disconnection from ourselves and others.
Based on a combination of research-backed tools, polyvagal theory, self-compassion and more, the Shame-Free Community makes it easy for you to reconnect with your body, mind, soul and community.
About me

Hi I’m Helen, I’m a blogger, a small business owner, a yoga teacher, a writer and a trainee counsellor. I’m also someone who knows what it’s like to never feel good enough and who’s lived with shame for as long as I remember. My healing journey started back in 2017 when I ended up mostly bedbound with chronic illnesses and had no choice but to lie still in silence all day every day. This is where I found the time to reflect, meditate, pray and start to heal from shame. Now that I’ve come this far, I want to help others heal too, and this is what this website is all about.
I help people living with shame to:
